Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Conversations With My Son

I worked late today so Casey picked Gavin up from school. When I walked through the door this is what I was told:

"Hi family!" I sing-songed through the entryway. 
"Hi mama!"
"Hi babe. Guess what?" asks Casey.
"What?"
"We're getting a donkey."
"What?"
"A donkey. Gavin told me all about it on the way home. He has it all planned out."
"A donkey?"
"Yes. We're getting a -"
"A donkey!" Gavin interrupts. "And I'm going to ride it home from school, along the road."
"We're buying the donkey from the donkey store and Papa in TN is going to build a farm for it in our backyard," Casey adds, clearly amused.
"Wow, a donkey, huh?"
"Yes."
"Mama, will the police take the donkey to jail?"
"Um, I don't think so."
"For walking on the side of the road? Will the police be mad?"
"I don't think the donkey will go to jail. The donkey hasn't done anything illegal."
"Ok."

 I'm not the only one who has meaningful conversation with Gavin on the way home from school.  I'll be sad when our conversations go from riding donkeys home from the donkey store to more serious life lessons.


Thursday, December 5, 2013

Carolina the Christmas Elf

Our elf made her first appearance a few days ago. When Gavin and I arrived home tonight we caught Carolina red handed. She had made a mess of our movies and was watching Rise of The Guardians. Gavin said she was watching it because she likes the elves.


Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Conversations With My Son

My son must be a Texan. While driving home from school:

"Gavin, what did you do during your work cycles today?"

"We practiced our writing and looked at the continents."

"You studied your continents?"

"Yes."

"What continent do you live on?"

"Texas."

I was afraid that spending the first two years of his life in TN may have put him behind the curve, but looks like he's well on his way to becoming a Texan.


Ps. Yes, that is a green mustache. For my birthday last week, Casey and Gavin surprised me with a juicer - something I have wanted for a while now. Gavin enjoys being my special helper and most of all loves the juice! Even if the primary ingredient is spinach. Love!



Maternity Portraits

I'm lucky to have such talented and creative family and friends in my life. One of my new friends here in Austin is a professional photographer and also studying photojournalism at UT. A few evenings ago she invited me over for a little girl time and a maternity portrait session. I am beyond grateful! She did a fantastic job. 


30 weeks and 4 days

Yesterday was one of several upcoming milestones in pregnancy two. I was approximately 30 weeks and a few days when I went into labor with Gavin. I had been experiencing contractions all day. First just 1-2 an hour and by 3:00 in the afternoon my contractions were 3-5 minutes apart. 

I left work early and checked into L&D triage, where I was administered the fetal fibronectin test, which resulted in a negative test for early labor. I was sent home, told my contractions were Braxton hicks and that I should relax and drink lots of water.

Early early the following morning I was awoken by contractions, which grew closer and closer together. Casey drove me to the hospital and to everyone's surprise I was 4 cm dilated and in labor. Thus began Gavin's birth story.

Yesterday, I  am happy to report, there were no contractions or signs of labor. My bun is still baking. Friday will mark 31 weeks, exact same gestational day that I delivered a premature Gavin. That's our next milestone. 

After we pass 31 weeks, each new day I am still pregnant will be a gift and new experience all together for me. We'll be looking ahead to the 36-week milestone at that point. D-day as far as my doctors are concerned. If by chance I defy all odds and make it past early full-term, I was advised that due to my gestational diabetes it would be best to induce at 40 weeks. I trust my doctors here in Austin and believe that both me and baby 2 are in good hands. 

Milestone #1: 30 weeks, 4 days


Not sure why but lately every time I post from my iPhone the pictures are blurry. Weird.


Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Conversations With My Son

While sharing an orange that came from the tree belonging to a friend of Nana Kathy in San Antonio:

"Gavin, these oranges are really sweet! Yum."

"Mmmm, these are good. Mama, can we grow an apple and an orange tree?"

"I'd like to. I know people have citrus trees in San Antonio. I'm not sure if Austin is too far north for oranges or not. I'll have to look into it."

"If we have an orange tree, then when we are hungry we can just walk outside and pick fruit off our trees!"

"That's an excellent idea, Gavin."


Monday, November 25, 2013

Our latest project: Dear Santa,....

Gavin and I have been working on his language skills - letter identification and sounds and writing. Over the weekend we started our letter to Santa. A good exercise in both letters and writing. 

It's slow and painful. In one sitting we get through one sentence, then we call it quits and revisit when interest returns. 

I'm very proud of him, Gavin often will ask on his own if we can work on his letter to Santa. 




Wednesday, November 20, 2013

28 weeks and 4 days

Well, here we are in our seventh month. In less than three weeks I will be at the same gestation that I was when Gavin was born premature. Doctors are definitely keeping a close eye on things. 

My cervix is still intact and at the length it should be. I  am having contractions and mild cramping despite the progesterone therapy, though not as much as when I was pregnant with Gavin. I've been prescribed to am informal evening/weekend bed rest. 

I am experiencing other complications that I did not experience with G. I was recently diagnosed with anemia, varicosities, and gestational diabetes. I have a higher risk of the latter two due to the hormone therapy. Not sure how in the world I became anemic, but here I am. Iron supplements and compression tights have been ordered.

I am concerned about the diabetes, but so far both doctors and several nurses assure me that the risk of preterm delivery is more critical than the diabetes, which is supposedly easily managed with diet and exercise.

However, due to my contractions my activity is limited. I am searching for just the right balance between enough exercise to manage blood sugar and contractions. It's difficult for me. Additionally I've had to make adjustments  toy diet and forgo the comfort of the occasional Starbucks hot chocolate with a morning bun and eating waffles with Gavin in the morning.

Soon I will receive my blood sugar monitoring equipment and will have to check my levels every few hours and log the data, which I'll have to send to my doctors on a weekly basis. 

The good news is that I finally mety insurance deductible and all these fun little extras are slightly less expensive. 

The diabetes diagnosis was disapointing considering how close we are to the holidays. I was really looking forward to pumpkin pie and bread pudding and turkey and dumplings and cranberry sauce and chocolate pie, homemade pie...

I should stop torturing myself now. 

The holidays also mean a lot of time at home, in our new recliner. Especially during Christmas, which will be a critical time. The 33rd/34th week. Ladies that share my circumstances typically give birth between 35-37 weeks, which is my doctors' goal (if not longer).

I've fallen terribly behind on my blog, which is disappointing, but also temporary. Photos are at least saved and slowly being edited and uploaded to Shutterfly for future family and baby photo albums. I've made progress on other side projects and been trying to work as much as possible to make up for time lost at weekly doctor appointments.

Gavin still kisses and hugs baby almost every day and patiently rests his hands on my belly waiting for movement. He also speaks to my belly. "Hi baby, I'm your brother," he says. "Be good and have a nice day with mommy."



Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Soccer Highlights

Gavin's soccer abilities continue to develop. We are enjoying the opportunity to watch him grow into his sport. Casey especially enjoys coaching. Go Texans!!
















Monday, October 21, 2013

Six Months

Well we're 2/3 of the way with cooking baby 2. The journey is quick and anticipations high. Much has happened since my last post. At least several posts worth - nursery prep and extended visits from both Nanas, a visit to Dallas for a family wedding and quality cousin time, the Dallas Zoo (a mother-son affair), soccer games, Halloween prep, a new teacher for Gavin, and even a date night! I've been taking more photos with my phone than my camera, something I hope to remedy (and I have my eye on a new lens). Studying for the GRE is still happening, but I've lost some momentum. I maybe overestimated my free time and stamina during this pregnancy, but I'm committed and determined. Not sure when I'll take the exam, either just before baby comes or a month or two after. I'm playing that one by ear. Ideally I will take it before, but this will depend on whether or not I am on bed rest, etc. Some of the programs I am interested in require a GRE score and others do not, they all require substantial writing samples and a compelling personal statement - all of which will take time. 

I've had 7 progesterone shots and am feeling almost overly monitored between all the doctor visits and nurse follow-ups, but I suppose it is for the best. We are still keeping the sex of the baby a surprise. We have an evolving list of baby names. Baby now weights approximately 1.5 lbs. My go-to food craving continues to be a tall Starbucks hot chocolate and morning bun, which perhaps unfortunately is too easily attained considering there is a Starbucks in the parking lot of where I work. I'm doing my best to keep this craving in check.

Casey took this photo as we were leaving for a rare date night - dinner and live music in Austin's South Congress/1st district. A real treat! We ate at Elizabeth St. Cafe (French Vietnamese) and took in some soul music at the Continental Club (St. Paul and the Broken Bones).






Our annual fall camping trip is this weekend. We're staying close to home this year, Colorado Bend State Park.